Everytime I feel bad or sad, I struggled whether I should put it into writing or not here in this blog of mine . Since I decided a long time ago to put the title as Count Your Blessings, writing a piece that can only be concluded as sad seems out of topic until recently I reread my favourite book The University of Hardknocks by Ralph Parlette.
In short the author summarized that if burden was lifted from a person. The person will soon become wrecked.
A burden it seems is not there for you to despise or to hate but to appreciate because only when you are bumped with unfortunate situations that you will learn.
It is something to applause and to be happy about. Of course not necessarily something to share about, not to the depth of your grief personally if you can hold yourself not to. But for some people like me who gather her thoughts by writing it down, it simply a must. It's still up to me though to share it with others or to keep it personal.
There were times when I wanted to only share my positive thoughts with others so that people will have nice balanced positive thoughts to mull over in their heads. But then again, more than trying to give that positive state of mind, I would love to share my experience in life. The good, the bad and anything in between. You know I am not much of an angel nor a devil. I am a human who happens to inherit the bad side of Eve who loves the unknown but promising and in the course of doing so bumped into so many unfortunate situations.
I decided then that If I happen to want to share the bad things happened then so be it. I cant' hurt people by being me can I? As some people said, be good, be bad. Just be. . You are not confusing people that way. You are just opening up to the world. No frills.
Rather than feeling anxious of being labeled as someone who don't walk the talk, I am just going to be happy that I have the freedom to share my piece of mind regardless of the contents or to whom it might bless or offend.
As Paulo Coelho said, you can't please everyone. If everybody loves you, you are not being true to yourself or something is wrong.
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