In my group I met three wonderful characters. The first one 'k' was easily noticed with her trademark pink. She wore pink colour like she owned it. If she was not wearing it, it would be her stuff that was in pink colour. However what stand out the most was her very soft-spoken character and yet when she was asked to explain things she was loud and clear. She was kind, approachable and made you feel good.
The second person was "NF". She was a girl who was very serious in appearance. The unique thing about her was she had her unique way of choosing "tudung". She stand out with the way she wore her tudung. She was kind of aloof and although she did not elaborate much of her bereavement, I understand it. She had a miscarriage for three times and because I am married myself I understand the kind of pain she must had suffered because of it.
The third person was "A". She was in my group and also a room mate of mine. She wore things at her own will and well it was rather sexy. So that was what really stand out about her. We had more time talking to each other since we were in the same room. She shared with me about her bouts of depression and how she struggled to go through it. I could relate to her very well since I myself had about the same experience except that rather than the person experiencing it as the first person, I was the second person as in watching someone loosing herself before my eyes. I shared with her how it changed and affected me as the person who had to be strong for the person even though I myself was suffocated and swore I could die anytime because it was too much to bear at times. I hope I helped her since she was sharing how the husband could not relate to her while in my opinion the husband was like me, wanted to help but in fact helpless and wished the table just turned around.
The little time I shared with those three characters did influence me and affected me if not changed me a little.
With "K", her suggestion to me to maybe "create new approach in doing lab test to not be bored by the same usual routine" gave me something to ponder about upon returning back to work.
"NF" made me realize about how much I wanted a child at the moment
"A", opened up my long forgotten wound. I had bury it deep down inside and my attempt to reveal it to her actually made me a little shaken again. The only thing that was quite surprising to me was, it no longer hurt me as much.
But, I guess some of the conversation did make me a little "out of mind". Thus, the reason why I impulsively bought 4 books and two dresses because I always went down that shopaholic road to comfort me.
It was a memorable getaway cum course that will certainly stay long in my memory.
God blesses them all "k", "NF" and especially "A".
The second person was "NF". She was a girl who was very serious in appearance. The unique thing about her was she had her unique way of choosing "tudung". She stand out with the way she wore her tudung. She was kind of aloof and although she did not elaborate much of her bereavement, I understand it. She had a miscarriage for three times and because I am married myself I understand the kind of pain she must had suffered because of it.
The third person was "A". She was in my group and also a room mate of mine. She wore things at her own will and well it was rather sexy. So that was what really stand out about her. We had more time talking to each other since we were in the same room. She shared with me about her bouts of depression and how she struggled to go through it. I could relate to her very well since I myself had about the same experience except that rather than the person experiencing it as the first person, I was the second person as in watching someone loosing herself before my eyes. I shared with her how it changed and affected me as the person who had to be strong for the person even though I myself was suffocated and swore I could die anytime because it was too much to bear at times. I hope I helped her since she was sharing how the husband could not relate to her while in my opinion the husband was like me, wanted to help but in fact helpless and wished the table just turned around.
The little time I shared with those three characters did influence me and affected me if not changed me a little.
With "K", her suggestion to me to maybe "create new approach in doing lab test to not be bored by the same usual routine" gave me something to ponder about upon returning back to work.
"NF" made me realize about how much I wanted a child at the moment
"A", opened up my long forgotten wound. I had bury it deep down inside and my attempt to reveal it to her actually made me a little shaken again. The only thing that was quite surprising to me was, it no longer hurt me as much.
But, I guess some of the conversation did make me a little "out of mind". Thus, the reason why I impulsively bought 4 books and two dresses because I always went down that shopaholic road to comfort me.
It was a memorable getaway cum course that will certainly stay long in my memory.
God blesses them all "k", "NF" and especially "A".
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