I just finish reading up The Secrets Women Keep written by Dr.Jill Hubbard and it really is a good book.I find the book very interesting because it touched a lot of angles.
However the only thing that really comes to mind after reading it is; that whatever it is I need to have many kinds of friend. I need to keep the old one to remind me of who I was but it is not necessary to stick to them only, because as we grow older they may not see the person we have become. We might have gone through a lot of changes over the years that not only our old friends do not realize but also fail to recognize.
To cater our present need for friends we need to make friends or meet new friends who could relate to our presence self. The new friends may have no idea who we were in the past and would make the necessary judgement based on what they see us at the present time which can be important if we are in the process of trying to become a better person or if we are stuck with old friends who only see who we were and not who we are now.
The book does touch other important things but I like the above idea the most because it jumped right out from the sentences she wrote. It taught me one thing which I never really think about deeply; the need to have friends to support us in our current situation. It taught me that although I need my old friends if they are no longer seeing the me at the present then I could always move on with other friends who can understand the me at the present.
In short, it is a good read. I personally think I must find time to read it again.
However the only thing that really comes to mind after reading it is; that whatever it is I need to have many kinds of friend. I need to keep the old one to remind me of who I was but it is not necessary to stick to them only, because as we grow older they may not see the person we have become. We might have gone through a lot of changes over the years that not only our old friends do not realize but also fail to recognize.
To cater our present need for friends we need to make friends or meet new friends who could relate to our presence self. The new friends may have no idea who we were in the past and would make the necessary judgement based on what they see us at the present time which can be important if we are in the process of trying to become a better person or if we are stuck with old friends who only see who we were and not who we are now.
The book does touch other important things but I like the above idea the most because it jumped right out from the sentences she wrote. It taught me one thing which I never really think about deeply; the need to have friends to support us in our current situation. It taught me that although I need my old friends if they are no longer seeing the me at the present then I could always move on with other friends who can understand the me at the present.
In short, it is a good read. I personally think I must find time to read it again.
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