I like this book. First and foremost is because of how broad the subject being elaborated by the author. Reading a book written by someone who is honestly in bereavement himself is really touching. It is clearly showing that the writer wants to help others as much as he is trying to help himself. In this world where the loss of someone or something makes you breakdown or even lead you to commit suicide, this would be a good book to read.
Listed are the few interesting lessons I learned from this book.
1. Losses of life are not just about the death or departure of someone you love but about things that make a life to you such as a job and a home.
2. Without properly saying goodbye to something that means a lot to someone may cause a depression.
3. Coping with losses may take a long time but can be learned and done by taking simple step such as saying goodbye to the things that remind you most about the person or by writing letters as many as you can to the person without actually sending it (for yours to keep) who have left until you emptied your heart out.
4. It is not wrong to cry when you are reminded about the person from time to time. When words are most empty, tears are most apt.
5. When you are consoling someone who is in bereavement comfort her/him with the right words such as lending a helping hand.
6. All of us are a future handicap. It means one day we all are going to lose something that makes our heart break such as the passing or a death of someone we have spend our life time with or a job we have dedicated our lives too.
7. Who you are in your words describes what life means to you and the descriptions you make about yourself determine the length and the width of life to you.
Listed are the few interesting lessons I learned from this book.
1. Losses of life are not just about the death or departure of someone you love but about things that make a life to you such as a job and a home.
2. Without properly saying goodbye to something that means a lot to someone may cause a depression.
3. Coping with losses may take a long time but can be learned and done by taking simple step such as saying goodbye to the things that remind you most about the person or by writing letters as many as you can to the person without actually sending it (for yours to keep) who have left until you emptied your heart out.
4. It is not wrong to cry when you are reminded about the person from time to time. When words are most empty, tears are most apt.
5. When you are consoling someone who is in bereavement comfort her/him with the right words such as lending a helping hand.
6. All of us are a future handicap. It means one day we all are going to lose something that makes our heart break such as the passing or a death of someone we have spend our life time with or a job we have dedicated our lives too.
7. Who you are in your words describes what life means to you and the descriptions you make about yourself determine the length and the width of life to you.
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