The highlight of today must be the brief time I shared with one of my colleagues. She was lamenting about how nobody cares about her@ no one really loves her. Hmmmm. Now, that was something not easy to dispel from someone mind especially if you knew her marriage life wasn't working out.
I shared with her some of the things I knew regarding the languages of love and which language will describe her best. (I'll talk about it later in my next post ya! ) She said hers was quality time. She needed attention to feel that she was loved.
She pointed out that UNLIKE HER I was someone who attracted people at first sight and was loved by my mere appearance to which I disputed.That was her opinion. I tried to explain to her how things weren't always how it looked like. Despite whatever she thought about my appearance, I wasn't that much lovable. Trust me! I had been broken hearted many times and also people had said I took things to heart which made them scared because they wanted or mistaken me for someone with an easy going characteristic.
I shared with her how unloved I felt some time, which wasn't far away from how she felt. I think it is normal to feel that away, especially so if you couldn't get the love of the one you loved.Right?
I hope she mulled it over in her head and not starting to have a twisted ideas about what is lovable and what is not. Looks can deceive but people stay and love you because of who you are inside and not how you look like outside. First impression doesn't count for the long term. Right?
Whatever it is, I am blessed indeed to be able to share my mind to possibly help some people to ease their mind about looks and appearance. Maybe all you need to do is to smile more, be sincere, don't try to impress but be who you are and just focus on feeling great being you. You are your best look when you don't compare yourself with others. Right?
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